When your 2-year old has 3 stitches on her cheek, you tend to give her anything she wants. Which is why Emma had cheese puffs for breakfast.
And not the organic pirate booty kind … the “stain your fingers and mouth orange” kind.
It all started Saturday when we took Emma to my parents’ house in Georgia for her very first overnight away from us. We weren’t worried at all, because we knew Bo and Pappa would take good care of her … but we did miss her terribly.
Mom updated her Facebook a couple of times, and Emma was doing great. Went to sleep without any issues, slept through the night, woke up around 7am, just like she normally does here.
Then I get the phone call from mom on Sunday morning :: “Now don’t freak out, but …”
Their boston terrier Lizzie had scratched Emma’s face. An accident. They were able to stop the bleeding quickly, but the location of it was on her cheek – right where her smile curve is. So it was open.
They took her to their local EMT, and he suggested taking her to an urgent care facility to have it checked out. The main concern was scarring and infection. During this time, I approved everything we needed to approve over the phone and started getting ready to drive down there.
By the time we arrived, she was at the urgent care center getting treated. The nurse there was able to get it closed with Dermabond, and we thought everything was okay.
I updated Facebook and Twitter with a couple of pictures, and that was that.
Until about 7pm that night, when I noticed that it was a little red. I got her under the lamp and was upset to find that the dermabond had come undone, and she was bleeding again.
I immediately called her pediatrician’s office to have the on-call nurse paged. She told me to take her to the ER right away. We packed some snacks and books in a bag and started heading over to the children’s ER. On the way, I called the pediatrician again to make sure that we couldn’t just butterfly it closed overnight and bring her to the ped office the next morning.
I know, that sounds kind of irrational, but we knew at this point some healing at already started occurring, so would a few hours matter? Also, we didn’t want to take her to a germ-ridden hospital when she’s not sick.
The second nurse called her doctor who confirmed that she needed to go to the ER and have a doctor there stitch it immediately. They even told us that a plastic surgeon would probably do it since it was on her face.
Also, since the wound had been open, closed with dermabond and then opened again, they were concerned about infection, which could make everything about a thousand times worse.
We got to the ER around her normal bedtime, so I was thinking that it was not going to be a pretty few hours. Amazingly enough, Emma was in amazing spirits – singing for everyone in the waiting room, talking our ears off, making jokes, and generally being what you would NOT expect a 2-year old to be from 8pm to 12am.
Fortunately, they had a sick waiting room and a well waiting room, so we weren’t stuck in a room with a bunch of swine flu victims. Rather, we were in a room with a kid who had a broken rib. Not bad.
Even the sticker chart that I am sure we will be billed an exorbitant amount for kept her interest for about 30 minutes once we got back to a room, which normally doesn’t happen. She can’t do anything more than a few minutes at a time.
But even then, taking your kid to an ER is just not fun. Period. By the time we left, I think we sanitized our hands about 128 times.
We finally got in to see a doctor around 10:30pm, and sure enough, she said she’d have to stitch it. A huge glob of numbing cream, 30 minutes of waiting for it to take effect, two shots of lidocaine, and three stitches later, we were finally discharged at 11:38pm.
Emma was amazing. I know people say that about their kids all the time, but she really was unbelievable. She cried once when they gave her the shots of lidocaine (believe me, I was watching, and it was hurting ME!) – but she did not flinch, did not move a muscle while the doctor was putting the stitches in. The med student who was holding Emma’s head was just playing with her hair – she was THAT still.
The plastic surgeon oversaw the whole procedure and said it looked good when it was all over. They told us that there’s no way of knowing if she’ll end up with a scar or not, but if she does, it’s something that can easily be taken care of in the future.
We could not be more proud of our amazing little trooper.
After it was all over, Emma just wanted to go back to Bo and Pappa’s house, so clearly, she is not traumatized in any way. She is doing just fine.
I’ll go ahead and put the pictures of her stitches behind a cut, because while they’re not gross per se, I don’t think it’s ever easy to see a 2-year old with stitches in her cheek.
This morning, she played like nothing had ever happened, and she doesn’t even notice the bandaid covering her stitches.
In the end, we’re just thankful it wasn’t worse, and we’re proud of our strong little warrior. She’s an example to us.















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What an amazing warrior! She is so brave.
I had to have stitches around my eye when I was about 3 or 4 when I got pushed over by a dog. I only freaked out when the doctor tried putting a cloth over my head so I couldn’t see. Once I could see what was going on, I was perfectly fine.
I hope everything heals well!
What a very brave beautiful little girl!
I think we sometimes don’t realize how strong our kids are. I had a similar experience this past summer my 1 1/2 year old slipped with her sippy and got stitches under her chin. I think it was worse on me and my husband she was such a big trooper acted as though there was nothing ever happened!
What a brave little trooper! I hope the cut heals quickly and I’m glad she doesn’t seem too bothered by it.
Glad to hear that your daughter is okay and was so brave. Just found your blog and am loving the pictures! Also, you led me to “Bench Monday” which is now my new favorite thing.
I say poor Bo and Pappa!! As a grandparent, I know the heartache you feel when something happens on your watch…it’s so much worse than when it happens to your own child!! I am so glad she is ok and was such a good girl at the ped. emergency room. My daughter is an r.n. at the Cleveland Clinics ped er. Nice to hear she was well cared for by some dedicated people who love children! Oh and Emma… I love the orange messy cheese puffs too!! Hope you had a better lunch!! Hugs to you Emma… Love Meme
Oh no!!! Oh my gosh – those stitches DO totally make me want to cry! I’m so glad she’s doing well and YAY that she’s such an awesome trooper:)
She is a trooper. She looks so tiny on the stretcher. I’ve been there (3 times, 2 for stitches, 1 broken arm) so I know what it’s like. I think it’s harder on us than it is on them. I’m sure you’re giving her lots of tlc. PS: After the stitches are removed, make sure you use sunscreen on the stitch area and I used mederma and bio-oil on the area to minimize scarring.
Poor Emma! Traumatic, for sure, but probably more so for Mom and Dad (and Bo and Pappa!)!
And we’ve been there-my youngest son got pushed into the corner of our play table by my oldest and needed nine stitches right in the middle of his right eyebrow. He was just shy of turning 2, and was nowhere near the champ Emma was! (Check my Flickr page, set named “The Accident” for our pics!)
Glad she’s feeling alright today! How are your parents???
Oh she’s such a trooper. Good thing is kids heal quickly and the scar should disappear.
Awwww! Bless her heart! When I was 9 I fell off a tractor I was playing on and cut open my cheek in a little triangle on a blade. At the ER there was a plastic surgeon who sewed me up. There was never a scar and to this day I can never remember if it was my left or right cheek! Hope she is 100% very soon … (((HUGS))) to her and to your sweet Mama’s heart!
Poor Emma! Poor mom! I remember every detail of the day my son broke his arm – days like that sure make us appreciate the normal, quiet, uneventful everydays, don’t they?
ahhhhhh! Poor thing!!!
Your daughter most definitely does take after your mother. When she was 4 we were having a picnic at a park between Belle Glade and Pahokee, Florida when she tried to jump on the concrete bench attached to the table, missed and hit the table; cut her eyebrow open. Trip to the ER, it took 5 (yes,5) of us to hold that little girl because she thought they were going to put the shot to deaden the spot directly into her eye. She was so hysterical we could not get her quite enough to explain. She had never even cried before when she got a shot. Glad Emma is “more evolved”.
poor little angel. Well at least it’s on her smile line. Blessings and healing vibes coming your way sweetie.
She’s amazingly beautiful and strong. Even if she has a scar, she will still be perfect.
I’m so glad she did well with the ER and stitches. We’ve had one run in with Dermabond, and my son screamed like a banshee the whole time. So sad.
Good luck getting them out tomorrow :)