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parenting

We were at the downtown art fair.

There were thousands of people around. Very close. Mingling and talking. Bumping into her.

She clung to her daddy’s neck like it was her lifeline. She hid her face often. She didn’t look anyone in the eye.

I even rolled my eyes a little when I saw kids her age running after the cartoon characters that were at the fair, because I knew she would just cry and hold on a little tighter.

She did.

I took a few pictures, trying to capture the gorgeous sunlight behind her and her daddy.

And when this one came up on the computer screen at home, I cried.

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I got up from my computer, grabbed her and hugged her tight.

And she said, “I sure do love you, mommy.”

And I promised never to roll my eyes at her shyness again.

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some days …

May 2, 2010

in emma,parenting

Let’s face it, nearly 3 is going to either drive me completely insane or totally kill me. Seriously.

THE WHINING!!! I CANNOT TAKE THE CONSTANT WHINING!!!

I know people say that 2 is hard (ha!!) or 4 is hard, 5 is hard, 6 is hard … but I have SO many friends who have said that this 2-almost-3 + just-turned-3 stage is the worst stage of a kid’s parent’s life. And I believe them.

WHY WON’T SHE EAT ANYTHING ANYMORE?

I truly want to skip over the next few months and work our way into three-and-three-quarters, please.

IF SHE COMES OUT OF HER ROOM AT NIGHT ONE MORE TIME, I’M GOING TO PUT A DEADBOLT ON THE OUTSIDE OF HER DOOR!

Anyway.

Isn’t this a peaceful picture?

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Let’s take a closer look.

Arms are crossed. Pouting lip fully extended. Tears inevitable. Because I wouldn’t let her jump into the fast-moving river and pet the ducks. The horror!

But then there are moments … wonderful wonderful moments … when the stars align and earth is rotating at just the right speed …

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And I say to myself, “Man. I am so lucky.”

And then she whines at me to quit talking to myself.

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Some days, I go through my uploaded pictures in Lightroom and reject all of them.

And then some days, I can’t help it … I catch my breath.

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The hair blowing in the wind. The framing of the shelter she was sitting under. The symmetric trees in the background. Her. She just takes my breath away.

And then mere minutes later, she shows up with this.

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A tadpole!!!

[cue sanitizing gel]

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Ken was playing tennis, and one of his teammates brought his kids. Emma immediately said, “Can I go play with them?” And off she went.

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The little boy was busy digging for tadpoles the entire time, but when they weren’t running obstacle courses and drinking 8 gallons of water from the water fountain, the girl shared her Nintendo DS with Emma.

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I actually learned a lesson or two from this 8-year old. She was so patient with Emma, and when Emma wanted to play this one game over and over and over and over again, the sweet girl just sat there and said, “Okay. That’s my favorite game, too.”

Unlike me, who sometimes gets so tired of Emma playing the same games over and over and over that I hide them way up high in the hall closet.

She also sat and showed Emma how to play different games, how to change the settings, how to make different shapes – and never once did she get exasperated with Emma’s lack of patience.

And when her and her brother wanted to do an obstacle course, but Emma took off running instead, they didn’t yell at her to come back and do what THEY wanted to do – they just shrugged and ran after her.

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Yes, I could definitely learn a thing or two from these amazing kids.

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Interested in learning more about photography? Want to get everything you can out of your camera? Well, I’m throwing out a challenge over here today.

It was actually a good reminder for myself since I wrote it a few weeks ago and was already getting blah about my photography this year.

Let me also just throw out a blanket apology – for not posting much here, for not posting comments on your blogs, for not being as active on Twitter.

Bottom line? I’m pooped.

Emma has been a little more clingy than usual lately, and it’s taking a lot out of me on a daily basis. I just can’t sit at the computer much without her needing me to do something with her. She’s very needy, very much bored with everything she owns.

Just today, I spent a good 10 minutes getting paints out for her to play with, spreading paper on the floor, getting a cup of rinse water and a towel for drying – and then she painted for, oh, about 4 minutes. And then I cleaned up.

Don’t get me wrong – I’m not complaining about her. Just stating the facts of our life right now. She’s two. And she wants to experiment with new things every day. And my job is to take care of her needs. And we’re dealing with it and getting through it. Eventually, we’ll get our groove back, but for now, she needs me more than I need to be online.

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enjoying

October 7, 2009

in emma,parenting,pictures

emma is about to be 29 months old.

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twenty-NINE months on this earth. and i feel like i’ve spent about 3 days with her.

don’t get me wrong, we do everything together. she doesn’t sit in front of the tv and veg all day while i do other things. we play and draw and paint and do puzzles.

we read a lot.

we ? books

we even clean together.

but there are still hours going by that i can’t account for. at the end of the day, i wonder what happened during her 12 hours of awake time.

the minute i put her down to bed, i miss her. i plan amazing things to do the next day, and then the next day is over, and my list is still sitting there.

life goes by SO fast, and i’m going to miss it if i don’t start living it.

silly girls

and enjoying the moments i have with her.

enjoying the moments

because she’ll be going off to college in about 3 minutes.

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